+ Fucking Your Friends For The Love Of The Game +
+02/09/2025
++ Pope Francis, in 2024, once used the phrase 'air of faggotry,' + which has since become the energy I wish to live my life + fuelled by. Since then, I have only got gayer. And part of how + I have only got gayer is by accidentally falling into becoming + polyamorous. +
++ "A polyamorous transfemmer? Groundbreaking," I hear you say, + and it's true. Trans women do loooooove to be poly. But the + thing is, and bear with me here, I think it's because they + might be on to something? +
++ Cat and I first dabbled in polyamory the year prior, where we + ended up accidentally flirting too hard and fell into sexting + with our friend Ada. Anyone who knows me knows I've always + been a hideous flirt, but a bit too much drink and some THC in + the club later and before you know it I'm talking about how + much I want them to strap me. Whoops!!! +
++ Since then it's been kinda constant. We can't seem to make + friends without also ending up fucking them in some fashion. + And it's honestly been delightfully liberating? +
++ There's still so much puritanism around sex. Christianity has + had a hell of a long reach. I think it's fair to say sex is + still widely considered to be divorced from friendship, that + your friends and your pursuits are separate and mixing them is + largely a Bad Idea. +
++ But, like, why? I know heterosexuality is a prison for many + people but, seriously, why? Sex is intimate, sure, but it's + also... fun? An entertaining way to spend an evening? A good + way to kill an hour? Why does it have to be reserved to a + special subset of people you usually haven't got to know + beforehand? +
++ It's weird to me. Hets are weird to me. Some of the best sex + I've had has been with people I've been friends with for ages! + Last year I flew across Europe to see and shag friends. We had + a sick evening together and then we hung out and went to a + museum the day after. +
++ I guess it's because people think it'll impact your + friendship? But... I don't think that's really true? Not with + well-adjusted adults, anyway. We're always chatting with the + aforementioned pan-continental booty call and will be back to + hang out with them sometime soon. We stopped sexting with Ada + ages ago but talking with them is still a delight and + hopefully one day we'll manage to hang out with them IRL, when + US travel is a little less insane. +
++ IDK what I hope to achieve with this post. Maybe I just wanna + brag? But I fuckin' love being poly, and I wanna yap about it + a little. I think more people should try it out! Free yourself + of the arbitrary restrictions the world puts on you. Obviously + if you're in a relationship discuss it with your partner first + though lmao that's just shitty otherwise. But yeah! It's just + fun, man. Sex isn't some big important event just have a good + time. Life's short and everyone you fuck will bring something + new and fun to your experience. +
++ And if you're lucky, someone will say 'wow, there are great + acoustics in here' into your cunt, making you burst into fits + of laughter. It's moments like that that make life worth + living, baby. +
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+ Ah, now that was definitely why I wanted to make the + post. +
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